{"id":44969,"date":"2025-01-28T16:59:54","date_gmt":"2025-01-28T16:59:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/2025\/01\/28\/below-deck-viewers-flame-toxic-captain-sandy-after-leaving-fraser-in-tears-dexerto\/"},"modified":"2025-01-28T16:59:54","modified_gmt":"2025-01-28T16:59:54","slug":"below-deck-viewers-flame-toxic-captain-sandy-after-leaving-fraser-in-tears-dexerto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/2025\/01\/28\/below-deck-viewers-flame-toxic-captain-sandy-after-leaving-fraser-in-tears-dexerto\/","title":{"rendered":"Below Deck viewers flame \u201ctoxic\u201d Captain Sandy after leaving Fraser in tears &#8211; Dexerto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Below Deck viewers flame \u201ctoxic\u201d Captain Sandy after leaving Fraser in tears BravoBelow Deck\u2019s Captain Sandy Yawn is in hot water with viewers after her feedback to chief stew Fraser Olender left him in tears. It is fair to say Sandy has been a divisive stand-in captain for Season 10, after Captain Lee was forced to take a break from the role on medical grounds \u2013 ruling himself out of contention for Season 11. Lee has even called out the decision to fire Camille Lamb on Twitter, prompting a response from his replacement on a radio station. On January 24, he said: \u201cSo I found out after the fact that she fired one of my crew, not before. Ok?\u201d Sandy said she gave him a courtesy call about the decision and needed to make a call on the crew member swiftly. Now, it appears Sandy has found another problem in the crew \u2013 popular chief stew, Fraser. Fraser Olender in tears over Captain Sandy Yawn comment While Captain Sandy has gone on record saying she would rather work with Fraser versus former Below Deck Med star Hannah Terrier, she has become increasingly frustrated by him during the charter season. Sandy fired Terrier for being in possession of contraband drugs in Season 5 of BDM. As seen in the full recap below from Hayu, she has accused her newest interior team of rushing guests off the boat, calling them out over the radio. In the latest episode of the show, the captain delivered some brutal feedback to Fraser in front of the crew, and fans have taken issue with one comment in particular. \u201cWhen I see where we can change things, I expect you to go downstairs and shoulder what I just told you,\u201d Sandy said, learning that Fraser had discussed his feelings about her to other crew members. \u201cThat needs to be improved and not permeate the boat with cancer\u2026 You have now infected my entire program. The fish stinks at the head and right now you are that head.\u201d Sandy went on to say that she has seen \u201cinsubordination and just blatant disrespect\u201d from the crew, starting with Fraser. Breaking into tears, Fraser said: \u201cIf someone refers to cancer to me ever again with what I went through with my father it makes me disgusted. The fact that she thinks so negatively of me makes me feel utterly horrendous.\u201d He has since said the comment felt as if it was designed to \u201cbreak\u201d him. Below Deck fans respond to Sandy\u2019s \u201ccancer\u201d comment\u201d Many viewers have leaped to the defense of Fraser, with users describing Captain Sandy as a \u201ctoxic\u201d boss to work for. One replied to his tweet: \u201cThat was not constructive Fraser, it was bullying and it was made to break you! It\u2019s your first time and you\u2019re doing amazing and she is faulting you at every hurdle! We see how well you\u2019re doing and the guests clearly love you.\u201d \u201cIt it was constructive, she would have helped guide you better instead of just criticizing.\u201d Another said: \u201cCaptain Sandy is one of the most toxic bosses ever. She\u2019s cruel, condescending, and reactive.\u201d A third posted: \u201cShe was wrong. She handled it wrong. Just wrong any way you slice it.\u201d Whether or not Fraser will continue on as chief stew on Below Deck US remains to be seen, but one thing is for sure, he will be hoping one crew member returns to the Med soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Below Deck viewers flame \u201ctoxic\u201d Captain Sandy after leaving Fraser in tears BravoBelow Deck\u2019s Captain Sandy Yawn is in hot water with viewers after her feedback to chief stew Fraser Olender left him in tears. It is fair to say Sandy has been a divisive stand-in captain for Season 10, after Captain Lee was forced [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44969","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44969"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44969\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dejan.au\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}