Woman divides internet claiming all couples should sleep separately TikTok: kat.studiosA TikToker defended her and her boyfriend\u2019s choice of sleeping separately, leading to a debate online as people on both sides of the argument present their case. The age-old tradition of couples sleeping together has now led to a debate after a single post from TikToker @kat.studios, on having separate bedrooms. Her statement has given rise to a heated conversation on the dynamics of a relationship and the importance of personal space. She started her TikTok by asking when people would normalize a couple living together but having separate bedrooms without thinking their relationship has hit a rough patch. Kat shared the reasons why it works for her and her boyfriend to have this arrangement. She has been dating her boyfriend for 6 years, and they have been living together for almost 4 years. TikToker explains why they have separate bedrooms The TikToker began with the judgments people have about them and said, \u201cIt is amazing how people will jump to conclusions and just make the worst assumptions about our relationship when they find out.\u201d The very first thing she clarified is that they end up sleeping together most of the time, however, sometimes when they need their own space or have to wake up in the morning, they choose to sleep separately. She also explained that if one of them is sick or has trouble sleeping at night, they go to their bedrooms. Kat talked about the benefits like having extra closet space and not getting rid of things when she moved in with her boyfriend. The TikToker added that they make their bedrooms their own with the decor and their rules, which gives both of them full control. She said, \u201cIt\u2019s just really nice having that sense of freedom and independence in a committed relationship, where you have to compromise on everything else.\u201d The last reason she listed was about having their own private space when they have a fight occasionally. Kat said, \u201cSometimes couples fight and it\u2019s really nice to have a private, personal space where you can go take a beat, get your thoughts in order, take some for yourself, etc.\u201d The TikToker ended her video by urging people to not judge others saying, \u201cIf you ever meet a couple that maybe doesn\u2019t share the same bedroom or does something else that seems odd to you try not to jump to conclusions, try not to make assumptions, try not to be an a**!\u201d Internet debates on TikToker\u2019s arrangement Many users on the platform started sharing their opinions about having the same bedroom as their partners while some users applauded her for talking about this. A viewer wrote, \u201cMy wife & I have our own rooms. I am very neat & she isn\u2019t. We both get to have our own space & office since we work from home. very happy! [together] 22 yrs.\u201d Kat was surprised with the amount of support in the comments section and thanked users for all their love while admitting that she did not expect the video to \u201cblow up the way it did\u201d. The TikToker just wanted to rant and explained, \u201cI don\u2019t know any other couples that don\u2019t share a bedroom.\u201d She added, \u201cIt\u2019s been so cool knowing that I\u2019m not the only one\u201d with the \u201cweird\u201d lifestyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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